The thing about waiting is it feels you are at a standstill while everyone else seems to move forward without you. You are excluded, standing on the banks of the river of time.
Or so it feels.
Where in the spiral are you?
What if, instead of (winning) streaks, we spoke of spirals? Designed systems that did not stretch into runways, but rather spiralled upwards?
How do I stay in a space of openness and trust?
When something doesn’t turn out the way I had hoped, I feel grief: it hurts, it’s scary and it’s terribly disappointing. And it pisses me off.
When the going gets tough, how do you get going?
Okay. Here goes: full disclosure time.
Keep dancing
When the way is dark and the wind is cold, Keep dancing.
When the air is thin and your chest hurts, Keep dancing.
How do I stop comparing myself to others?
Been feeling very hollow today. Have been full of self loathing comparing myself to others. Feeling paralyzed. Any tips?
Could I be too attached to my dog?
The older she got, the more anxious I got. Maybe there’s something wrong with me, I thought. I just get too attached.
How do I find my purpose?
Having a purpose is like being “chosen”. And who doesn’t want to be chosen?
How do I choose when I can’t decide?
Every decision is a bet. And I am not a gambler. I like being in control. I like a sure thing. And deep down I believe that if I make The Right Decision, it will all work out in my favor.
Qarrtsiluni
How wise also to Know deeply the importance of remaining together. For interdependence is a fact, not a belief.